Whether expanding our reach to new community members or taking on the risk of navigating tough topics, improving our capacity to engage in dialogue across difference will help librarians expand their library's capacity to serve as a third space bringing communities together for interaction and learning. When diving into new challenges of the present and future, or revisiting old disagreements, our capacity for healthy dialogue enables us to build a sense of community, become more effective problem-solvers, and help unlock the potential in our communities to overcome deep-seated challenges. New frontiers mean greater uncertainty, at a time when so much feels unstable. Healthy relationship is critical to our success, and it comes not from avoiding conflict altogether, but learning how to take advantage of healthy conflict as an inevitable dimension of living in community with people different from ourselves.This pre-conference workshop is designed to build participants’ capacity for civil discourse on tough topics facing our communities and even libraries themselves. We will explore understanding civil discourse in the context of other peaceful tools for engagement, the impact of our particular identities and experiences, and specific ways we can improve our day-to-day engagements in a difficult political environment.